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When Donahue asked his teammates and their coach, Bob           Go Gooch!
        Hartz ’90, ’98S (MBA), to help fund the locker, everyone
        jumped in. “Within minutes of reaching out via text and         It took just one game for the team to adopt a family
        email, people were donating,” he says. “What we’ve done is      nickname for their pal, Dave. That’s when they
        really a small drop in the ocean, but it’s something.”          heard Dave’s mom shout out, “Go Gooch!” It was
                                                                        a childhood nickname adopted by the team and
        Capucilli’s parents and his younger brother, Matt, are          then forever used in college. “We started calling
        grateful that Dave’s memory is honored in this way, in          him “Gooch” and “Davey Gooch” when he was a
        a place on the River Campus where Dave formed many              baby,” says Mrs. Caps. “I was a loud and proud mom,
        friendships. “We were overwhelmed and overjoyed when            so it’s no wonder the boys ran with it.”
        Ryan and our other “sons”—that’s how we think of them—
        presented us with a photo of the locker and the plaque          The Foursome
        inside it,” says his mother, Jo Anne, who the team calls Mrs.   Gooch wasn’t the only one with a nickname—
        Caps. “It is an amazing tribute.”
                                                                        everyone on the team had one. Donahue was
        Kolich is touched, too, as baseball meant so much to her        known as Maestro, a self-anointed moniker that
        husband. “When I want to understand Dave’s lifelong love        gives a nod to a favorite Seinfeld episode. Two
        of baseball, I think about his favorite film, The Natural,” she   buddies had aptly selected names, too. Bryan
        says. “It beautifully weaves together a story of an imperfect   Hollihan ’99 was called Sticks, because he wore
        yet finally heroic character and America’s love of baseball.    number 11, and Lindsay Parker ’99 was coined
        In many ways the film exemplifies the way that Dave lived       Tedward, because he looked like a combination
        his life—with courage, tenacity, and love.”                     of television news anchor Ted Koppel and

        Capucilli’s friends and family also remember him at a           Massachusetts Senator Ted Kennedy.
        memorial golf tournament held each September in his             Field Clean Up
        hometown of Baldwinsville, New York, just outside of
        Syracuse. Proceeds support the Capucilli Baldwinsville          After every home game, the team would be
        Community Scholarship Fund, which has provided                  tasked with field clean up. “Gooch always
        scholarships to two qualified local high school students        angled for a really good job, like driving the
        each year since 2013.                                           tractor to rake the infield. The whole team
                                                                        would actually pick him up and throw him onto
       “Dave was a kind and intelligent child who grew to be
        an example to everyone he ever met,” adds Dave’s father,        the tractor . . . gently, of course,” says Donahue.
        Dennis, known to the team as Mr. Caps. “I think about how       Mrs. Caps recounts how the boys would dance
        he graduated 20 years ago and that we lost him in 2013, six     out on the field together, like Michael Jackson,
        years ago. His lasting impact on so many people is amazing      to cover the mound during a rain delay. “They
        to me, even after this much time.”                              were so much fun to watch,” she says.
                                                                        Traveling Men
       “The fact that his teammates did this for

        him is an example of their connection to                        “We had a lot of pre-game rituals when we
                                                                        traveled,” reflects Donahue. “We’d play euchre,
        each other and Dave’s effect on them,” says                     share stories, and laugh together a lot.” Donahue

        Mr. Caps. “My family is grateful that they,                     and Capucilli would always bunk up, too. “Gooch
        along with so many others, still revere his                     would get the sheet and I’d take the comforter,”
                                                                        he adds. “It’s just what we always did. Those were
        memory and hold him deep in their hearts.”                      good times that I’ll never forget.”








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